Ok someone asked me to do this post, why? Because verbatim they told me "I didn't know you were so freaky". And please don't think this was in an intimate setting, I was at work actually and we were discussing piercings, and I told the group that I had my nipples pierced, and yes they did hurt. The fact is I love sex in general, kinky toys, positions, piercings, the works, but you would only know that if you ever had sex with me or if we were talking in a general situation. I would never dare make a twerk video showing everything and post it on Facebook, Twitter, etc, or make basically a porno with two girls in a bathtub and post it for everyone to see (yes that did happen and those girls only got paid $100 to do that, smh). Basically what I'm saying is I don't want you to know my sexual desires from first glance, you don't need to. If I decide to let you into that world so be it, but it shouldn't be on display in my everyday life. My boss shouldn't know what I have done because they accidentally stumbled upon a video of me twerking on a car, or a guy shouldn't know automatically what I like to do because I put it on display at any club or party I go to. It's called leaving it to the imagination. I know, cliche, but it's true. I just rather have your respect first than your dick or tongue if we're going to be in this for the long haul ya know?
Generally speaking, in our society we don't know shit about discretion, especially with the overkill of social media multiplied by the crazy standards that have been implemented into our world by music videos and fake personas that we have to put our freakiness on display. Girls can get 100+ likes by putting their asses on a sink but only 10 for a great smile selfie, and that's the world that we live in.
Ladies, woman to woman, don't subject yourself to that. I know it's tempting because the attention is almost instantaneous and it's hard to turn down attention, but men are not going to respect you if they don't see anything to respect, which certainly means they won't respect your knowing their homeboys cousin, brother, and daddy have seen the same thing you have, just save it for your beau.
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